indroducing myself

[MumaSmurf]

Hi Diane

I'm mummy to Keiran who is 2.

Look forward to getting to know you.

Claire xx

[Jules]

Hi Di,

Welcome to the site! If you're who I'm thinking of then we've chatted in the past (when my two were much younger than they are now, less than 2 months from their 6th birthday).

Jules

[Laurap]

Hi Diane

Welcome to the site. Nice to have you hear.

Im Laura Mummy to Jazmine who is nearly 7 months.

I dont buy Best magazine but will do now

Any problems give us a shout.

xx

[Shell]

Diane,

Its been a while since you and I spoke and we used to text but then for some strange reason we lost contact and we used to be so close.

My hair is just a funny colour but now I have blonde highlights, Alex is changing so much but I was trying to think back how long its been since you and I spoke. We will have to exchange numbers again.

Karen - The story is amazing isn't it. I took the magazine to Mom & Dad's the other day they can't believe what Diane as been through. Its like with me and Alex I know it wasnt the same but I had IVF for then Lee to cheat on me, it makes me so angry.

Love
Shell xx

[Dianecunniffe35]

hi shell,

yes we will defo have to swap nunmbers again, i think you were waiting for your divorce to come through the last time we spoke, i no we were both having hard times at that time, i think alex was about 9 mths the last time i seen a pic of him,

is lee still with the woman he went off with? does he see alex alot?

the things us women go through for men eh?

i still find it very hard to trust a man, even though ive been with chris for quite a while i just dont trust him compleatly,

how about you shell i bet you find that hard to

love
di xxx

[Shell]

Hi Di

I can't believe how old Alex was and now he's nearly 4 we was both going thru so much so when I got an email from you I was so glad to hear from you. I lost all my contact details from my email and also from my phone so I was useless but now you are in touch then I will pm you my mobile number.

Lee is still with her and they have a Daughter together, things seem to be ok and we try and get on for Alex's sake. He sees Alex at set times agreed thru the solictitor and gets 1 week of ayear to take him holiday. We are quite flexible and both try and do things to help each other matie.

Di I know what you mean about trust it is very difficult to trust again but least you have Chris who stands by you. He knows all you have been thru so would know that from time to time you are bound to find it difficult but least you have found your happiness. I do find trust a big thing especially because I got involved with someone who was married and he said him and his wife was living separate lives etc.... but everything was just lies.

I am now currently single Di and just happy to spend t ime with Alex and my family and one day my Prince will come along.

Love
Shell xx

[Ceri]

Hi Diane

Wecome to the site.

Im Ceri, Mum to Thomas and Katie who are 4.

Ceri x

[Clare]

Hi Diane,

I'm Clare mom to Chloe and Ryan and I live across the road from Shell. I read your story in best magazine, OMG what a story. Well done you for putting your story out there so everyone knows what sort of a man he is, I hope he got loads of stick after people read the article.

I got divorced from my 1st husband 3 years into our marriage, admittedly there were no children involved, thank goodness, but I was still very hurt by him and like you it took me forever to start to trust again. I am now more that happily married but poor Stu had to put up with an awful lot off me when we first got together, I guess what I'm trying to say is trust can happen again, hopefully Chris is the right one for you.

Look forward to chatting to you more soon and hearing lots more about Benjamin

Clare xx

[Dianecunniffe35]

hi girls thanks for all your replies hope to get to know you all alot better,


shell sorry its taken time to answer as you no i went to spain for a few days for my birthday, chris mum had ben for a few days he calls them nan and grandad, they think the world of him,

shell i am lucky to have found chris, to be honest i thought i would never meet anyone again and he is so good with ben, ben calls him dad, he has asked me to marry him loads of times but i wont i dont want to get married again, so he has agreed to stay as we are for now

so there is hope for is all and hopefully you will find a good man soon

love
di

[Shell]

Hi Di

Thank you for your email when you was in Spain I so hope you had a good time. I am so happy for you, at the end of the day there is no rush into getting married who knows one day you may change your mind. I think its lovely that Ben calls him Dad and that is lovely, you have your perfect family. You have been thru crap before but one thing for sure you have your happiness now.

Love
Shell xx