Can Couples Be Incompatable

[Shell]

I know i've not spelt it right but hopefully you know what i Mean by this. Can couples be incompatable when trying for a baby. I mean take me and Lee for instance, we had to go through IVF for Alex I have endometrious but then they said at the time of tests that Lee had a low sperm count but then he's got 2 daughters from previous relationships.

My other friend had been trying for a baby for years and it didn't happen after 10 years. She split from her partner and is with someone else now and now has a baby.

Strange and was just wondering.

Love
Shell.
xx

[jayne]

hi i think it is one of them things it just happens when making babies they r specail some catch easy some need help on the way some need less stress but who iam i .........life is hard work and somone somewhere knows wats going on i wish they would tell me
jaynexxxxxx

[jayne]

so sorry iam down 2day ex husbands mom died today at 3 this morning and ive got job of telling my two and zachary wont deal with i just know so at 5 tonite i will be breaking there little hearts i hope not.... not seen ex phoned at ten told me we knew it was coming cancer every where poor woman 62years old

[Shell]

Jayne

I know we have spoke about this and to tell Zach and Olivia is going to be tough but if you need to talk or anything then come round, my door is open.

Big Hugs, will be thinking of you.

Such a young age really I know that you may be bitter with your ex but he must be going through it at the minute.

Love
Shell.
xx

[Clare]

Jayne I'm here too whenever you need me.

Shell I think that people can definatley be incompatible with each other. I know of a couple that were together for over 10 years, never used any kind of protection. They split up and within 12 months they both had new partners and babies on the way, so they couldn't make a baby together but apart it was easy for them both.

God works in mysterious ways !!!!!!!!!!

Clare xx

[Mum2ollie]

Aww sorry to hear your news Jayne.

Shell, I think people can be incompatible, yes. Lol was diagnosed with low sperm count previously and had gone through IVF to have Ellis, but we were extremely lucky to fall the first month. I think there might well be something in the compatibility.

It's certainly an interesting idea

Sam
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[Mamabird]

sorry to hear your new jayne, hope you are ok and the children take as wel as they can.

I think there could be a not-so friend of mine slept with a boy from 13yrs right up till 21ish never using anything they never got pg she slept with one bloke once and got pg and now has a 16month old

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[jayne]

hi they r ok but zach dont want to talk ex just phoned to see how they r but they r still up just going to bed now to bed normal bed time is 7.15 but i thought i would let them stay with me as i know they wont be lying a wake....by the way i wont be told or asked to the funral even though the family know its all his fault we split ..........the dad died june and was not told but asked for my cd and i spoke to the dad alot 1 week before his died very weird funny family
jaynexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[Shell]

Oh Jayne I was wondering how it all went big big hugs, will Zach and Olivia be at the funeral. At the end of the day I know they have there Dad but you shuld be allowed to be there for your childrens sake.

Very interesting reference babies so it looks like it could be a possibility.

Shell.
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[NikkiB]

I also believe in the incompatibility thing!

I know a few couples that couldn't conceive together but had no problem with new partners!

Jayne, I'm sorry to hear about your ex-FIL - I hope you everything goes smoothly at the funeral.

Love Nikki xx