Getting me down

[NikkiB]

AF has gone completely AWOL!!

My last one was 11 October :shock:

It's really getting me down as I was hoping and praying that I would have a chance of conceiving before Jeff went away!

Obviously there is no chance of that now

I told my GP when I went for a new prescription of Metformin and she said to "see if my period arrives soon"!

How long am I supposed to wait until they can give me tablets to start a bleed?????

I so badly want another baby, it's all I can think about lately and because it's now almost 2 years since my last miscarriage and haven't been able to conceive since I'm starting to think it will never happen and Braden will be an only child.......

Jeff says we should be grateful for just having Braden and of course I am but I can't help yearning for a sibling for him......

Sorry to rant, but feeling really down about it all and now with Jeff going away I know I'm going to be thinking about it even more, if you know what I mean!!

Arrrggggghhhhhhhhhhhhh - why isn't life easy??

Love Nikki xx

[jayne]

hi
life is never easy. when does he go? is there still time left?iam sure it a week from last post on here
jaynexxxxxxxxxxxx

[NikkiB]

Hi Jayne

Jeff goes away on Sunday!

Why is life so fair and easy for some people but not for others??!!!

Love Nikki xx

[Mamabird]

nikki im sure you will be blessed.

I'm not sure about all the fertility ins and outs what does metformin do will it give you a period. sorry i am pretty clueless

I really dont think the yearning for another baby ever goes away, i know i am so broody i could cry. Havin a baby seems the most natural thing to do but its bloody hard!

I hope you do get blessed soon.

xx

[NikkiB]

Hi Daynna

Metformin is a drug which is prescribed to some women with PCOS to relieve symptoms etc. and supposedly help you to ovulate!

Thanks for having faith - I don't have any at the moment......

Love Nikki xx

[Mamabird]

oh cheer hun.

i know its heart breaking having a period when your ttc i can only imagine what its like not having a period.

maybe whilst jeffs away your body well settle down and get regular for when jeffs back then bingo. they say these things happen when you least expect it.

good luck and i'll keep my fingers crossed for you.

xx

[jayne]

hi my finger r crossed and yes it hard work but iam sure it will work next time but keep trying but take some of the pressure off yourself give yourself a break you deal with alot at the moment
jaynexxxxxxxxhugs

[Shell]

Nikki

Hello first of all, secondly big hugs.

I know its not easy for you and I know how much you really would like another baby but please don't give up hope. Some people get so down about it this doesn't help anyway. I know its easy for me to say but you need to try and keep active.

I know you are also probably feeling down with Jeff going away and that is taking its toll also but you will get through it.

My friend said to me on Thursday she was pregnant she was well happy and I was happy for her. The thing is she had a little boy through IVF and she was told she would need to follow that route again and then she and her Husband had decided they didn't want IVF again so just pushed having another baby behind them but then she is now 3 months pregnant. Then my other friend she had two attempts at IVF and it didnt work and now she's got a litlle girl who is 5 months old.

What I am trying to say from the above paragraph I know you are giving up hope of ever having another baby but it is still possible, try and stay positive no matter how hard it is Nikki.

I'd love another baby myself but its always in the back of my mind will it happen, and we know what its like when it doesn't happen and AF shows up it gets us down.

I'm here for you and will support you the best I can.
Love Your Friend.
Shell.
xx

[Laurap]

Hi Nikki

I am really sorry that you havnt conceived yet. Ever since i have been on here i know how much you want another baby but please DONT give up hope. I know it is easier said than done but stay strong and it will happen.

I know your worrying what with Jeff going away and that is going to be hard enough in itself but maybe it will do you good not getting your hopes up each month as you wont be having sex so wont be thinking has it happened. I feel the more you think has it happened and get your hopes up it isnt going to. The world is cruel like that, i dont understand how some people can fall easily and others cant.

I really truely hope it happens for you soon and hopefully 2007 and will be the year for you.

Love and Hugs
Laura
xx

[Mum2ollie]

Awww Nikki, so sorry to hear you upset. It must be so heartbreaking, but you mustn't give up as easy as that is for me to say.
It does seem unfair the way the whole baby things works...there are monthers in the area I live who just have baby after baby and one woman on this road just lets her 3 and 5 year old little girls wander about the road on their own!!! It's so unfair!
I really hope babydust comes your way and AF sorts itself out soon.
I know Jeff is away from Sunday, but you just have to keep trying when you can.
I have no answers, sadly but sending you lots of positive babydust and hoping things straighten out for you soon!

big ((hugs)))

Sam
xxx