losing my first pregnancy

[josmail08]

im so glad i have somewhere at last to write about this,it has been 4 yrs this month since i lost my first pregnancy at 11 weeks into it,it was absolutely heart breaking going in 4 my scan and coming out knowing we had lost our precious baby.I now have to children age 3 and 14mths,but our loss will never be forgotten xx

[Shell]

Oh hun I am so sorry of your loss, I dont think it gets any easier and the heartbreak you felt when you was told of your loss. Your not alone here there are people who have lost there children and would understand how you feel in yourself.

I know that you would always hold your precious angel close to your heart. You have 2 lovely children now which is good and a angel who you loved very much.

words fail me but you know you never have to suffer in silence we are all here for you.

Shell.xx

[Karen]

So sorry to hear about your loss, like shell says, i dont think it gets easier with time but you are able to cope with it better.
x

[MumaSmurf]

Sorry to hear about the loss of your little angel. Like the others have said I don't think it gets easier but you will become stonger in yourself and have 2 lovely children to watch and grow and now that they carry a part of your angel in them.

Claire xx

[Laurap]

So sorry to hear about your loss. Im sure it doesnt get easier but its good you can talk about him/her. It cant be easy but i am sure your little Angel watches over you and your family every day.

You dont have to suffer in silence we are all here to listen and help

x

[Mum2ollie]

so sorry to hear of your loss. I cannot begin to imagine the heartache it must bring and I am sure it something you will never really get over fully, especially as a mother.

There is such brilliant support here for you - several members have sadly experienced the same loss and they are always here to listen and support you.

Sending ((hugs))

sam
x

[josmail08]

thank u all for your kind messages,this may sound crazy but,some of u talk about our loss as our angel,i dont know if u have ever heard people say if u find a white feather in an unusual place u av been visited by an angel,well i VERY often find feathers in VERY unusual places,this might seem strange but it always offers me comfort and make s me smile,u may think im mad but,its just a way of me n my angel sharing xxxx

[josmail08]

our angel would have been 5 this month x

[Shell]

Rrrr Jo, your not strange because your so true about the angel side of it and I do believe thay its a way of angels saying hello. I to find feathers and think its a sign so no I dont think your mad. It dont get any easier does it I bet? and to think your little angel would be 5, lots of hugs coming your way.

Your not on your own here and what you have gone through other people have gone through similar things but it still dont make the situation any easier. You know you can always talk to us here and hope you are ok babes?

Shell.xxx

[Karolyn]

Lovely to hear from you again. Am sorry i missed your origional post.

Finding white feathers is not mad, bet it makes you smile. And the lovely thing is you know your angel is watching you....its just that feel good feeling.